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How does one succeed in life?

10.06.2025 05:30

How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Is the saying "nice guys finish last" true? Can good intentions always lead to positive outcomes?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Why cant I feel anything in my sleep? I cannot even feel myself moving, breathing, and swallowing saliva! I cannot even hear anything, not even my alarm! Some people that I've been with says that I'm moving a lot in my sleep, how can I stop it?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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What I need from you?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How did China invent gunpowder but it was the European nations that went out and “conquered the world using firearms”?

Making more friends is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why aren't U.S. prisons more like Marine Corps boot camp, were every second of the day there are mandatory activities so that at night everyone is so tired they go to sleep until wakeup at 5:30 am? Would this make prisons safer for all?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why do some straight men enjoy wearing women's lingerie?

Procrastinates a lot.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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That's it for today.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does not procrastinate.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.